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GROWING UP

15 Sunday Aug 2010

Posted by Steve in Blog

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Growing up

We can all agree that when we were younger, some of us had a little deviant behavior in us; some more than others.

We had some major ball busters in Windsor Terrace. I can sit here all day and blog about them. We also had some good people.  People you liked to hang around.

As we get older, or more mature, we tend to see things a bit different; the type of car we drive, the house we live, and the company we keep.  With that comes the way we behave on an every-day basis.

How you behave towards others is a reflection on how you were raised. If you know anything about personality disorders or even a bit of psychology, you learn about people and their ‘acting out‘ behaviors. I’m talking about the types of behavior you were exposed to at home.  It’s quite common.  Someone seeks attention because they never got it at home so outside they have to act the part. Someone was treated like shit at home by their parents, siblings or cousins and they go out into the world and treat people the same way; they think it’s the norm.

The people who talked the most, complained and argued were usually the ones who were begging for attention (remember those people?)

Critics fall under this category too; they become jealous and bitter so their only way of doing anything is to lash out.   It’s a normal reaction to defend ourselves and our behavior when someone criticizes us. I have been doing it for years. I still do it; but it’s gotten a bit better in terms of lashing out at the critic. I step back, see who is criticizing and ask myself, ‘who is this person’?

Take a look at the person that is trying to get everyone’s attention.  Trying to make you feel bad.  Trying to drag you down because you are living a decent life.

So please stop trying to get attention the next time you are hanging out with others. If you are jealous of the co-worker who got the promotion or the raise in salary, try sending them congratulations instead of talking behind their back.

The world is filled with certified cynics and amateur ball-busters. Let’s try to keep things positive, easy-going and treat people the right way.

-Steve

Hoops135@hotmail.com

THINGS I MISS…

24 Saturday Oct 2009

Posted by Steve in Blog

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Basketball, Cartoons, Coney Island, Coney Island Avenue, F-Train, Farrell's, Growing up, Joe Mussa, Living Room, Manhattan Beach, Neighborhood, P.S. 10, P.S. 154, Schoolyard, St. Francis College, Whiffle Ball

When I think back to the days of growing up on 9th avenue during the 70’s and 80’s, things I miss most and would love to reenact are…

Taking my basketball and heading to the schoolyard…

Playing punchball/slap ball in the girls schoolyard…

Watching cartoons and eating cereal while sitting on the living room floor…

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Hanging out with friends all over the neighborhood…

Playing baseball in the Lot…

Playing two-hand touch in the street…

Playing whiffle ball, in the street…

Watching Farrell’s Football practice on Saturday afternoon in P.S. 154 school yard…then watching them play the following morning on Farragut Road…

Intramural football…

Being a student in Mr. Mussa’s 5th grade class…

Being a student in Miss Monzillo’s 7th grade class…

Saturday morning basketball practice in the schoolyard…

Bantam ‘B’ basketball practice down P.S. 10…

Hanging out in Glenn Thomas’s basement listening to his brother Drew’s awesome collection of vinyl…

Sitting in Prospect Park late at night with guys like John Cain, Kevin Molloy and Jimmy Carroll…

Watching Gerard Trapp play basketball for St. Francis College…

Hanging out with Mary Kawas, Laura Cox and Noreen Davis…

Holding hands with Maureen Horan…

Jumping the turnstile and taking the ‘F’ train to Coney Island…

Playing basketball at Manhattan Beach…

To be continued…

-Steve

Hoops135@hotmail.com

 

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