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A TOAST…LIKE NO OTHER

My friend Pat Fenton wants to spread cheers to everyone from the neighborhood. Here’s a great piece from an outstanding writer and a better person…

On my wall, above my books in the room I write in, I have a framed original Christmas column Pete Hamill wrote. It’s called “A Garland of Christmas Toasts.” It’s a full-page long, faded, Newsday column dated December 13, 1967. Signed across the top of it are the words, “for Pat Fenton who remembers.” And I do.

It’s perhaps one of the most beautiful, moving pieces of writing about Christmas time that I have ever read. Sad at times, political, sentimental, it rolls across the page like the lyrics of a Van Morrison song. He always started his annual Christmas column with an apology to the writer Jimmy Cannon, who originated the idea and the form as only he could. Jonathan Schwartz should invite Pete Hamill on his radio show and have him read that to us on Christmas day to remind us all of the way we were. And alert his listeners to pour a glass of champagne before he starts. It deserves it.

Here’ a sample of his column: “maybe it’s the beer and the season and the weather, but I could almost swear there was a time when we had a hell of a lot more heroes, and a hell of a lot more laughs. And I’m certain there was a lot more girls.”

It was lines like that made me want to be a writer.

So, with my own apology to him for borrowing the form, here’s to Windsor Terrace tonight…

To Pete Hamill and his brother Denis and to Brian Hamill, and to Bobby Rice, and Judy, and Johnny Kennedy, and to Jacky Malone, and to Steve Finamore from Container Diaries, who records the story of our lives on his Windsor Terrace blog.

Here’s to the bartenders in Farrell’s Bar and Grill on 16th Street and 9th Avenue in Windsor Terrace in my old Brooklyn neighborhood, and especially to Jimmy Houlihan and to Eddie Mills, they all give so much to those who need it. And let’s not forget the memory of the bartender/actor, Danny Mills who also defined what Farrell’s Bar was all about since it opened its doors in the 1930’s. He understood that.

Like Pete Hamill, we all drank there when we were young so long ago, so did our fathers from Ireland, and we all passed through Holy Name Parochial School where our report cards are still on file, hopefully forever.

Glasses up to Malachy McCourt and his brother Alphie tonight. And here’s to Larry Kirwan from Black 47. And to the musician David Amram too, who I learned so much about Jack Kerouac from. Cheers! And to Chris Byrne, another Windsor Terrace boy, whose special bar Rocky Sullivan’s in Red Hook got tossed around by Sandy, but whose still open for business. And to Lisa McLaughlin who brings the talent there.

It’s Christmas time and we have a few toasts to make. Here’s to all the people of the Queens Supreme Court who I spent a good part of my life with, and how they never once asked me, what the hell are you doing here working as a court clerk when you have a by-line in New York Newsday and the Daily News? Thanks to Tony and Maureen and Jackie, and Ken for putting up with me.

Here’s to my friend Jimmy Breslin, tell him to call me on Christmas morning, and be grouchy again when I don‘t have the answer he’s looking for. I miss those calls. Someone tell ’Bres’ to write one more Christmas column. Let him write about how he is an usher in a Catholic Church in Manhattan, few people know that side of him. What a great Christmas story that would be.

May that women I shared a turkey sandwich on white bread with one cold evening in front of St Francis Assisi Church in Manhattan, as I was heading off to the old Rocky Sullivan’s Bar on Lexington Avenue to read, who trusted me as I handed half of it to her, be in a warm, safe place tonight. I never forgot her. She was Christmas.

Let’s all remember this holy Christmas night these words out of Newtown from a Litchfield Connecticut newspaper, “this heinous act does not define our town. What does is the love, compassion and caring that we have for one another. Love conquers all, especially evil.”

Along with “Scrooge”, let some cable station run a marathon showing of the movie “Pay it Forward” on Christmas Eve. Forget who is a Republican or a Democrat this night and let the politicians in Washington finally understand that we elected all of you to bring America together, not to divide it. It’s time for that.

Fill up my glass bartender, and let’s drink a toast to writers like T.J. English, Peter Quinn, Peter McDermott, Ellis Henican, C.J. Sullivan, who published some of the best stories about New York ever written in the New York Press, Jim Dwyer, Tom Kelly, Dan Barry, Jack Deacy, Column McCann, and the ones who I miss this year, Bill Reel, Dennis Duggan, Frank McCourt and George Kimball.

Here’s a special toast, a double Irish whisky to an editor from the Daily News that I will never forget working with, Bill Boyle, and his words, “go write a good story, Pat”, as he turned over a nine hundred word assignment to me that I just pitched to him. And , “don’t be too nostalgic.”

And let’s not forget to raise a glass to Brian McCabe, a great New York Detective and a great writer, and to my close friend the actor Jack O‘Connell, and the actor Ciaran Byrne, and to Kira and Nancy down in the Cell Theatre in Chelsea who breathe life in to all that we write with their stage.

Here’s to my friend Sandy Chapin this Christmas, and Pegge, and Jen Chapin, and Josh Chapin, and the memory of Harry Chapin who pointed us all in the right direction in America.

Hey bartender, send a drink down to the end of the bar to my friend, Mort Persky there, one of the editors of one of the greatest efforts to create a new newspaper in this town, New York Newsday, who watched over my words there.

Let’s drink to the memory of President John F Kennedy tonight who made my dad from Galway, Ireland so proud. This one is on me. Raise a glass and remember some of the lessons he tried to teach us when he said: “let both sides explore what problems unite us instead of belaboring those problems which divides us.” So simple.

Let his words be a Christmas card for the world this night. We need it more than ever. None of these things may never happen, but if they did it would be a fine Christmas.

Thanks for the use of the hall tonight, Pete. Merry Christmas.

-Pat Fenton

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TO BE THANKFUL

It’s just like back in the old days on 12th street where Denis Hamill would grab a stickball bat, step up to the plate and smash a home run!

Denis hits this one three sewers!

Do yourself a favor and read this article by Denis from today’s New York Daily News; one part has to do with Mickey Breen’s daughter Kelly, who lives in Staten Island and the other about a Staten Island native who was saving people left and right during Sandy.

Thanks to Willy and Gladys for passing this clip along from ‘Help Me Howard‘  courtesy of PIX 11 News – a solid report on Kelly’s ordeal with a real estate agent.

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-Steve

HOOPS135@HOTMAIL.COM

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ON THE ROAD TO SHAMBALA

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MOVIN’ ON UP

Our guy Denis Hamill at the NY Daily News, will not be on his usual assignment any longer.

Seems like the boss wants him to cover bigger news stories.

No one covered the streets like the D-Man!

Good luck D.H.

Respectfully,

Steve

Hoops135@hotmail.com

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GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

Once again, I was informed of another person from the neighborhood that has left us.

Along with posting positive memories of the neighborhood on the blog, I often get an e-mail, a phone call or even a text message letting me know someone from the neighborhood has passed away.

It saddens me to hear the news but I don’t mind – please keep sending me the messages. Our loyal readers, some as far away as Texas, need to know this information.

My favorite writer, Denis Hamill of the New York Daily News writes about his friend Mickey Breen who recently passed away.

As the years tumble forward from the tie-dyed days of Hippie Hill in Prospect Park when hundreds of us hung out on the grassy knoll just up from the Corinthian columns designed by Stanford White at Bartell Pritchard Square, you just keep on grabbing the black suit from the closet to go see another one of your flower power pals from Woodstock take his turn in the coffin in the front of a flowery room.

Guys like Dennis (Tiny) Reid, John Rice, Red Riley, Tommy Lenahan, Joey Corrar, Bruce Campbell, and my sweet brother, Joe Hamill.

This time, it was Mickey Breen, and he was a kind, funny guy who attended Power Memorial High where he befriended Lew Alcindor, before he became Kareem Abdul-Jabbar. Mickey loved his daughter Kelly, his five grandkids, his lady Gladys, his sister Colleen, his cat Cheech, the music of Jeff Beck, F. Scott Fitzgerald’s novels, and cold beer and big laughter and this place called Brooklyn that he called home until last week when he was waked in Hanley’s Funeral Home on Staten Island, where a slide show of old photos played on a loop as the Rolling Stones sang his favorite song ever, “Sympathy for the Devil.”

I didn’t know Mickey, but after reading D-Hamill’s story, I feel like I hung out with him on the parkside.

Mickey Breen, R.I.P.

Respectfully,

Steve

Hoops135@hotmail.com

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THE CRACKBERRY

Denis Hamill of the New York Daily News with a great story about his addiction for his Blackberry.

I’m addicted to my Verizon Blackberry. It’s the one thing, besides my keys, I always make sure I have when I leave the house.

How did we ever grow up without cell phones? Here’s a small segment from Hamill’s piece.

I hip-holstered the little rectangular machine like an alky concealing his flask and made oatmeal, cursed the empty teabag canister, trotted up two flights to raid my office stash, and rushed down to microwave “a wee cuppa” – as the Irish call it. Then trotted downstairs to the basement to take my kid’s school shirt out of the dryer with my own laundry, which I huffed up to my second-floor bedroom, hanging up my shirts, folding pants, balling socks.

Then trundled back down to the kitchen, where the microwave beeped like a flattening machine, signaling the tea was made. I splashed in milk, added Stevia in the Raw sweetener, sat at the dining room table where I scarfed my oatmeal, gulped tea, thumbed the Daily News, and talked baseball with my son. As he dressed I plopped on my living-room chair, watching the TV weather channel, amazed that there was such a thing as Aches and Pains Index under the Allergy Report.

I popped a Claritin and reached for my phone to send a pal a text.

Gone …

Respectfully,

Steve

Hoops135@hotmail.com

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BANDITS of SEPT. 11

My guy Denis Hamill of the New York Daily News on people profiting from Sept. 11; Jimmy Riches comes strong for a cause that seems to be making people a lot of money off off one of the most tragic days in American history.

A few years ago while visiting the World Trade Center I noticed street vendors hawking pictures of this devastating tragedy; all I could do was shake my head. How could anyone profit from so many innocent victims that lost their lives?

“It’s disgusting,” says Jim Riches, a retired FDNY Deputy Chief who lost a firefighter son, Jimmy Jr., 29, of Engine 4, on 9/11 and serves as Chairman of the Parents and Families of 9/11 Firefighters.

“The National 9/11 Memorial Foundation approached this Lieb Family Winery in Long Island to hawk this ’9/11 Wine’ for a kickback of 10% of the sales of each bottle that sells for $19.11. Can we get any sleazier?”

Sure, how about a nice sweet Holocaust Riesling?

“But it doesn’t stop there,” says Riches. “There will be a gift shop at the memorial. Anyone who wants to go seven stories underground where the unclaimed body parts will be stored will have to pass this souvenir stand selling books, pictures, coffee mugs, T-shirts, like the skells hawking this stuff out on the street. People making money off the worst day in American history. I find it shameful that they’re making this sacred ground into a revenue-producing tourist attraction.”

Respectfully,

Steve

hoops135@hotmail.com

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TWO QUIET, TOUGH, S.O.B.’S

One of the greatest center’s in the history of the Holy Name summer league, Danny Mahoney, mentioned Noona Taylor in the comments section a few days ago. Mahoney swatted away more shots than any player ever! Only problem is they didn’t keep blocked shots as an official stat in the summer league.

The wonderful story-telling Pat Fenton has written about Taylor in his short-stories/essays on Windsor Terrace.

The ever friendly Denis Hamill discussing in a NY Daily News article how his older brother, the great Pete Hamill describing to him Noona’s legendary toughness along with his two-hour fist fight with Ray Grillo.

According to my older brother Pete, two classic fistfights between Noona Taylor of the Tigers and Ray Grillo of South Brooklyn, lasted at least 20 brutal minutes each, with no timeouts, just pure bare-knuckle brawls. Both fights ended when cops arrived.

I used to see Noona every weekend down at Timboo’s bar on the corner of 11th street and 5th avenue. It seemed like every bar had their own crews; Timboo’s, Tug Boat, Gerard’s, Farrell’s, Windsor Pub, McBears, Lauterbach’s and Smith’s.

Noona was the uncle of the late Joe ‘Fonz’ Farrell. Fonz was my 6th grade baseball and basketball coach at Holy Name. I can remember Fonz talking about Noona when I would tell him I was going down to Timboo’s.

“My uncle hangs out down there,” he would say to me.

Pete Hamill’s description of a fist fight in May of 1950 between Noona and Ray Grillo in Prospect Park brought back memories of when I was a kid hanging out with the Gooch in Timboo’s.

“Two of the neighborhood’s toughest,” my friend Phil McNiff told me. “Those two legends have passed on.”

That must have been some fight between the two brawlers.

Noona, who worked as a Steamfitter was a member of the gang “The Tigers” and Grillo, a Local 40 Ironworker was down with the “South Brooklyn Boys.”

Hamill said the fight lasted 20 minutes, before the cops showed up and stopped it.

In my early 20′s while I was trying to find my niche as an Ironworker, I worked with Ray’s son. He was a great guy, he gave me a ride home a couple of times after work in a sweet Nova.  Often times I would see Ray on the corner of 11th street and 5th avenue hanging out with his dark khaki’s, short sleeve dress shirt and a sweet looking pork-pie hat.

I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention his folded up newspaper sticking out of his back pocket.

What many people don’t realize is Ray was an undefeated light-heavyweight boxer back in 1954 and 1955 with a record of 10-0!

My guy Phil McNiff passed this story along to me back when he was a nine year-old boy.

My mother was taking me and my sister for Chinese food on 9th Street, Sun Joy! Ray was walking down the block and we were walking up the block when two sailors started giving my mother a hard time.  Ray walked over to my mother and said,  ”Peggy take the two kids and walk up the block”.  I remember looking back, being curious; Ray had knocked the two sailors out cold! We talked about that for years! Ray was a man of very few words but plenty of action.As tough as Ray was he was a gentleman as was Noona!

Noona Taylor and Ray Grillo were two guys you didn’t want to mess with…

-Steve

SteveFinamore@yahoo.com

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CLASS IS IN SESSION

My guy Denis Hamill of the New York Daily News on ‘Life 101‘ …we are all enrolled. By the way, Happy belated birthday to Denis.

As you get older, Ryan thought as the waiter took dessert orders, you waste too damned much precious time in life trying to make sense of what life is supposed to be. The answer is that there is no answer. You accept that there are some people you have failed and will fail, but the one obligation you have as the caretaker of your own life is to enjoy as much of it as you can while it’s here.

Okay, Ryan thought. I’m 60 in 101. Maybe that’s the number I’ll live to. Or I might never hear my family sing happy birthday to me again.

So cherish this day.

Yes sir D-man, great stuff by a great writer.

-Steve

hoops135@hotmail.com

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GIMME’ A BOOST

Every now and then we can all use a boost, right?  I’m talking Peter Heaney pushing you up and over the lot fence on 16th street and if your car battery goes dead on 5th avenue, Corrado driving by, stopping, pulling out the jumper cables and giving you a jump! I’m not talking Frankie Ba-Ba ‘boosting’ a bottle of suds from Pynn’s deli either.

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Face it, when someone has something good to say to you it makes you feel good. (And don’t tell me it doesn’t)

In my Psych 101 class at Central Michigan University, my java-drinking professor called it ‘positive reinforcement’, or something like that. I wasn’t a very good listener. Hence my 2.6 overall G.P.A.

Regardless of the academic term, anything positive directed towards me makes me feel a whole lot better. It actually boosts my self-esteem.  (Yea so what, I have had a low self-esteem all my life, but it has grown steadily over the years). As a kid I was a walking identity crisis.

Our very own Denis Hamill from the New York Daily News gave us a major shout out on Tuesday.  Click here to see the love on page 2 (he also gave Hoolie some love too)

He doesn’t know it, but Hamill is my idol (writing idol that is). I have followed him for years (not in a stalking way).  He actually was kind enough to e-mail me back with some valuable advice/info on the writing craft when I began living out my dream of becoming a writer. I never took a writing class, never attended a seminar, I just read, read, read; and write, write, write.  His e-mail is worth more than any help a novice could ever receive from a writing class. I have also devoured all of his published books.

Another piece of advice from D-Hamill was to read as much as possible. One look at my home library would clue you in…I’m forever buying books and even checking them out from our local public library. But if I could only get them back on time, the late fee’s are killing me!

To this day I still read his influential e-mail. “Tell the story like you’re sitting around a campfire“,  he advised me 3 years ago when the Container Diaries blog was in it’s early stages.

Dennis baby, I never sat around a campfire telling stories in my life (come to think of it, we might’ve set fires in Prospect Park to stay warm) so I’m still trying to learn how to tell the story!

Over the years I have come to realize that with success comes confidence. Two things that I’m passionate and confident about is the blog and coaching.  I’m not the greatest writer in the world but I work hard at it every day.  I have attracted a decent following over the last 3 years at Container Diaries. And yesterday, thanks to Jimmy Vac and D-Hamill, my self-esteem went through the roof…and my confidence and willingness to write increased.

As a kid growing up on 9th avenue, no one, and I mean no one gave me any encouragement. Nothing from my mom or dad for this skinny red-headed basketball player. Actually, my bad, I did have a couple of people try and encourage me, my first girlfriend and a school teacher at Holy Name.

The only teacher in my 8 years at Holy Name that ever made me feel good about myself was Mr. Mussa. He instilled confidence in me because he was a ‘lifter’. He always had energy, he was passionate about teaching and he loved sports.

My first girlfriend was Maureen, if you’ve read the blog in the past, you know she was and probably still is an outstanding human being.

Today, when it comes to parenting and coaching, I try to lift everyone up because everyone from time-to-time can use a boost.

-Steve ‘Red’ Finamore

Hoops135@hotmail.com

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